broadist: you look great! have you lost weight?
I often tell people I have NOT lost weight, or even that I have gained weight. I did this first to my grandmother. She was horribly confused.
I’m a good looking fat woman. Crowbar that one in!
ATTN: “You look great! Have you lost weight?” is not a compliment. I know it has been the go-to praise-route towards many women since the inception of puberty, but I’d like to put an end to it. Why do I hear this like a broken record every holiday?
Some alternatives:
- You look great! How are…
